What is the best way to spank my husband? The best way to spank any partner is the way you have negotiated with them, something that is unfortunately missed in many of the other answers to this question. She gave me six pretty hard strokes of the Cane. Record-breaking heatwave continues with UK set to enjoy hottest day of the year so far as 91F sun makes it How can i get our relationship fully on track with him being in control. I got caned for that one. Authority is not requested of the offender.