Crazy Sex Positions Anal Guide 1. Many women are so anxious at the thought of giving head to their man, that they just get straight to it with little or no build up and with no teasing. This is a game in which everyone loses. Spitting is as if you are spitting him out, making a strange, grossed out look on your face, if you even let him finish in your mouth. With plenty of saliva or lube, try gently running your fingers over and back the top of his penis and listen as he uncontrollably groans in pleasure. I am notoriously difficult to please but what others took 30 to 40 mins to achieve…she could manage in 4 to 5 mins. Even if its behind your back.