So, where's the relaxation part of this equation? There probably are women who never orgasm, ever in their whole lives. That's when I tell these women the good news: To find the most current information, please enter your topic of interest into our search box. About one in five men in this study reported having a period of at least a few months in which they found it difficult to climax compared to about one in three women. Maybe they enjoy the pleasure of arousal all on its own, without the goal of orgasm.